2010年6月13日 星期日

final project (full version)


Our topic: focus on the transgender group in SL ,explore the deeper meaning of gender and ask the question "is SL a paradise for TG group?" which means that SL provides a better environment than RL. Since in SL, the boundary of gender is blurred, we want to do a survey to examine what TG group think their identity is.


This is our information sheet

INTERVIEW QUESTIONS:

Subtopic I: the reasons they choose to be transgender in SL

1. Do you choose to be transgender out of fun or interest?

2. Are you led by others to come here or by yourself?

3. If it is out of fun, what fun can you get from it?

After our discussion, we think that we oversimplify the issue of gender in SL. And it’s difficult to ask them questions because we might not easily tell their gender through the appearance of the avatar and ask further questions.


Subtopic II: comparison of transgender culture in SL & RL

1. What do you think about the present transgender situations in RL?

2. What do you think about the present transgender situations in SL?

3. What are your daily activities in SL?

4. Apart from the activities here, do you take part in other activities with people who are not transgender?

In the virtual world of SL, people don’t need to worry about the tag that people think who they are. They could just socialize with people freely.


Subtopic III: existing problems

1. Have you ever encountered any kind of embarrassment because of who you are? What’s your reaction towards those embarrassments?

Interview place: Transgender Resource Center in SL


Emily Spieler: I’m 45 in August. I think that TG is the most narccistic group on earth .In SL I just stick to people and not worry what tag they have or think they have .My point is that we go through some issues that are not very easy to understand even for some of us. And August is my 2 yr anni for coming out, and that 1st year of marraige went by fast too
Belunar Drake: I am a MTF person, hermaphrodite mentally and spiritually. If your looking at SL instead of TG, that’s a bit different…I consider SL to be a way to socialise, a way to be creative when the mood strikes, maybe at times a way to relax when I’m not in the mood to play computer or console games…I feel more accepted here than I do IRL at times; people seem less likely to judge here than RL. Sometimes I feel that it is because the average person on this planet is ignorant, closed minded, intolerant of anything outside of average

Mnemi Falodir: I am TG in real life; but I won’t emphasize and say I’m also a TG in SL. Of course, I feel more relaxed in TG Resources or some clubs because I could meet friends they are the same as me and get some advice. I am essentially a woman who unfortunately was born male genetically. Real life is often tough on us, more so than the so called average public. We are an unaccepted unique class of people which are often wrongfully treated. SL we can be who we were meant to without ever receiving the hardships. Plus, if someone has an issue with me, I love the ability to mute. I am accepted here, irl people would rather I not exist. The majority of us just wanna be seen as normal, feel normal, society doesn't want that. TG is a term for all people with gender related issues not trans specifically. It's not how someone will look at me, so much is how I am treated and potentially abused. In my case my unacceptance by which my family refuses to accept what is and their attempt to "cure" the virus. Imagine if someone were to tell you, you were a guy, and you had to marry a woman, be a man, join the military, or be casted out.


I got much information after interviewing and knew that every November 20, there is an international Transgender Day for Remembrance to memorize their brothers and sisters who died because they were trans. Many of them are those who were driven to suicide because family, friends, or society would not allow them to be their true selves.Through this interview I found that TG people actually are very friendly to answer my questions. But when asking questions, sometimes we should be very careful...For one example, I talked to one TG friend that parents all wanted their children to be normal. Then she argued what the definition of "normal" is with me. I think it is still very difficult to stand in the shoes of them because I am not a transgender person and all I can do is try to realize them and respect them. After all, I think we should all treat those people friendly and don't criticize them harshly and respect their own choices and their rights to live.


Useful information: http://sl-tg.blogspot.com/

2010年6月8日 星期二

final project interview

Interview place: Transgender Resource Center in SL

Emily Spieler: I’m 45 in August. I think that TG is the most narccistic group on earth .In SL I just stick to people and not worry what tag they have or think they have .My point is that we go through some issues that are not very easy to understand even for some of us. And August is my 2 yr anni for coming out, and that 1st year of marraige went by fast too
Belunar Drake: I am a MTF person, hermaphrodite mentally and spiritually. If your looking at SL instead of TG, that’s a bit different…I consider SL to be a way to socialise, a way to be creative when the mood strikes, maybe at times a way to relax when I’m not in the mood to play computer or console games…I feel more accepted here than I do IRL at times; people seem less likely to judge here than RL. Sometimes I feel that it is because the average person on this planet is ignorant, closed minded, intolerant of anything outside of average

Mnemi Falodir: I am TG in real life; but I won’t emphasize and say I’m also a TG in SL. Of course, I feel more relaxed in TG Resources or some clubs because I could meet friends they are the same as me and get some advice. I am essentially a woman who unfortunately was born male genetically. Real life is often tough on us, more so than the so called average public. We are an unaccepted unique class of people which are often wrongfully treated. SL we can be who we were meant to without ever receiving the hardships. Plus, if someone has an issue with me, I love the ability to mute. I am accepted here, irl people would rather I not exist. The majority of us just wanna be seen as normal, feel normal, society doesn't want that. TG is a term for all people with gender related issues not trans specifically. It's not how someone will look at me, so much is how I am treated and potentially abused. In my case my unacceptance by which my family refuses to accept what is and their attempt to "cure" the virus. Imagine if someone were to tell you, you were a guy, and you had to marry a woman, be a man, join the military, or be casted out.
Through this interview I found that TG group are very friendly to answer my questions. But when asking questions, sometimes we should be very careful...
For one example, I talked to one TG friend that parents all wanted their children to be normal. Then she argued what the definiton of "normal" is with me. I think it is still very difficult to stand in the shoes of them because I am not a transgender person and all I can do is try to realize them and respect them. After all, I think we should all treat those people friendly and don't criticize them harshly and respect their own choices.
Useful information: http://sl-tg.blogspot.com/

2010年6月3日 星期四

final project

Our topic: focus on the transgender group in SL ,explore the deeper meaning of gender and ask the question "is SL a paradise for TG group?" which means that SL provides a better environment than RL. Since in SL, the boundary of gender is blurred, we want to do a survey to examine what TG group think their identity is.

This is our information sheet

INTERVIEW QUESTIONS:
Subtopic I: the reasons they choose to be transgender in SL
1. Do you choose to be transgender out of fun or interest?
2. Are you led by others to come here or by yourself?
3. If it is out of fun, what fun can you get from it?

Subtopic II: comparison of transgender culture in SL & RL
1. What do you think about the present transgender situations in RL?
2. What do you think about the present transgender situations in SL?
3. What are your daily activities in SL?
4. Apart from the activities here, do you take part in other activities with people who are not transgender?

Subtopic III: existing problems
1. Have you ever encountered any kind of embarrassment because of who you are now?What’s your reaction towards those embarrassments?

2010年5月18日 星期二

Sexual liberate and satisfy your inward desire in second life





















Do you want to become a sexy and lustful person in your life? Of course, you don’t need to spend big money to have a plastic surgery and worry about the pain or the scars. Even if you are below eighteen, just prepare your money and shop in the sex store for adults-only goods. By changing your body shape, you could satisfy your inward desires with a sexual-looking shape and attract people no matter you are heterosexual, gay or lesbian.
One day, I changed my gender identity to male and visited “the Tristar gay bar.” To my surprising, the place was so incredible and free that people could have sex with each other in public spaces. Men were flirting with each other. Being polite, a person even invited me to a private space and asked me if I was willing to have sexual behavior with him. He also hoped that I could be naked to make him excited. Even though I refused him, he was still very kind and respected my own will. I also noticed that other people in the bar were half-naked and they swung their body sensationally and had good body shape. “The avatar is animated and some people would get excited which might be equal to watching lustful pornography; the different situation is that you are the main character, “said by Tolly Weatherwax, a visitor in the bar.
It seems that in second life, people don’t have to worry and think about the moral issues, responsibilities, burdens of love ,relationships and whether making love in public or private rooms is proper or not. It happens naturally in second life because we never need to worry those problems. According to your feelings, you could decide whether you want to be a man or woman today. You have the freedom to have sexual behavior with another avatar when you get his or her permission.
However, in real life, we might not have the chance to visit a gay bar or pub. Some people might think it is dangerous. But in second life, you could have your own choice to visit there and express your sexual tendencies and desires freely to your heart content.

2010年5月14日 星期五

Sexual liberate and satisfy your inward desire in second life(revision 1)

Do you want to become a sexy and lustful person in your life? Of course, you don’t need to spend big money to have a plastic surgery and worry about the pain or the scars. Even if you are below eighteen, just prepare your money and shop in the sex store for adults-only goods. By changing your body shape, you could satisfy your sexual desires with a sexual-looking shape and attract people no matter you are heterosexual, gay or lesbian.
I visited “The Trister gay bar” and find it was very incredible and surprising. People feel free to have sex with each other in public space. Being polite, a person even invites me to a private space and asks me if I am willing to have sexual behavior with him. He also hopes that I could be naked to make him excited. Even though I refuse him, he is still very kind and respects me. I also notice that other people in the bar are half-naked and have good body shape. It seems that in second life, people don’t have to worry and think about the moral issues, responsibilities, burdens of love and relationships to think whether making love is proper or not. It happens naturally in second life.
In real life, because of the gender dualism, we are born in male or female; we have no choice but become and be asked to behave like a man or woman. Nowadays, people begin to rethink if the boundary of gender is necessary, unbreakable and de-sexualized has its meaning because more and more people find out that they have different sexual tendency. However, in second life, we never have to worry about the controversial issue. According to your feelings, you could decide whether you want to be a man or woman today. You have the freedom to have sexual behavior with another avatar when you get his or her permission. The avatar is animated and some people would get excited which might be equal to watching lustful pornography; the different situation is that you are the main character.However, in real life, we might not have the chance to visit a gay bar or pub. Some people might think it is dangerous. But in second life, you could have your own choice to visit there and express your sexual tendencies and desires freely and contently which might make us feel more confident in real life!

2010年5月4日 星期二

SL News peer revision

I am the organizer of Sonny's news (sonny:writer, jessie: reader, susie: editor)


the dialogue is below:
[2010/05/04 19:11] Ding Atolia: it's a link
[2010/05/04 19:11] Ding Atolia: sorry sonny5258.blogspot.com
[2010/05/04 19:11] Ding Atolia: my story is so short...
[2010/05/04 19:12] Jessie Passerine: i'll be the reader
[2010/05/04 19:12] Ding Atolia: i want to focus on the good sides about the land issue in sl
[2010/05/04 19:12] Ding Atolia: compared with reality
[2010/05/04 19:13] Susie223 Chun: Many middle-class people who have worked fiercely for about 20 years get shocked when seeing their dreams of buying a new house breaking down
[2010/05/04 19:13] Susie223 Chun: maybe break down?
[2010/05/04 19:14] Ding Atolia: but i don't think I have expressed what I intended to say
[2010/05/04 19:14] Ding Atolia: ok
[2010/05/04 19:14] Ding Atolia: and i am really lacking in the background information about the land in sl
[2010/05/04 19:15] Jessie Passerine: well , after reading the article. I think buying an house in second life does not actually helo the situation in reality[2010/05/04 19:15] Ding Atolia: so what are the aspects are you guys interested in land in sl or house?
[2010/05/04 19:15] Jessie Passerine: it just offerred an escape temporaly[2010/05/04 19:15] Ding Atolia: haha good point
[2010/05/04 19:15] Jessie Passerine: in reality you still cannot afford a house[2010/05/04 19:16] Ding Atolia: I think I can add it to my story
[2010/05/04 19:16] Jessie Passerine: haha XD
[2010/05/04 19:16] Ding Atolia: and change my focus
[2010/05/04 19:16] Ding Atolia: not just the good sides but bojectively[2010/05/04 19:17] Ding Atolia: ruby
[2010/05/04 19:17] Jessie Passerine: and the first time i saw the title, I thought it was an add from the game
[2010/05/04 19:17] Ding Atolia: do you know more about the house building thing in sl?
[2010/05/04 19:17] Susie223 Chun: haha
[2010/05/04 19:18] Susie223 Chun: actually it's a good way to escape from reality
[2010/05/04 19:18] Ruby Lysios: The past two decades has witnessed an ever-growing rate in the house price. i think the grammar is strange
[2010/05/04 19:19] Susie223 Chun: not only buying houses or lands, but also the whole game
[2010/05/04 19:19] Ruby Lysios: you might add the subject "we"
[2010/05/04 19:19] Susie223 Chun: it's not strange, I think
[2010/05/04 19:20] Ding Atolia: I think it's a sentence structure
[2010/05/04 19:20] Susie223 Chun: because I once saw a similar grammar in a film
[2010/05/04 19:20] Ruby Lysios: allright
[2010/05/04 19:21] Ruby Lysios: it is a retreat for people in real life; they might but a resort and take vacation there
[2010/05/04 19:22] Ruby Lysios: i want to make money
[2010/05/04 19:22] Ding Atolia: yeah
[2010/05/04 19:22] Ruby Lysios: could we pay mortage to buy house[2010/05/04 19:22] Ding Atolia: haha. i am also interested
[2010/05/04 19:22] Ding Atolia: probably not
[2010/05/04 19:22] Ruby Lysios: down payment
[2010/05/04 19:22] Ruby Lysios: really?
[2010/05/04 19:22] Ding Atolia: ...
[2010/05/04 19:22] Ding Atolia: i am not sure[2010/05/04 19:22] Ruby Lysios: maybe you could search
[2010/05/04 19:22] Ding Atolia: ha
[2010/05/04 19:23] Ding Atolia: ok
[2010/05/04 19:23] Ruby Lysios: and you could encourage everyone has his palace one day
[2010/05/04 19:24] Ding Atolia: haha we are all princesses
[2010/05/04 19:24] Susie223 Chun: I want to try decoration in SL,XD[2010/05/04 19:24] Ding Atolia: yeah i think i need to search these kinds of information more
[2010/05/04 19:24] Ding Atolia: and show them in my revision
[2010/05/04 19:24] Ruby Lysios: and you could also kick out the person that you don't want
[2010/05/04 19:25] Susie223 Chun: maybe you can interview some peole[2010/05/04 19:25] Ruby Lysios: become a master of the land
[2010/05/04 19:25] Jessie Passerine: haha~
[2010/05/04 19:25] Ding Atolia: yeah someone who has owned one[2010/05/04 19:25] Ding Atolia: just like the guy we just met
[2010/05/04 19:25] Ruby Lysios: yes! you could add them friends
[2010/05/04 19:25] Jessie Passerine: so ding~ how to build a house?[2010/05/04 19:25] Ding Atolia: who drove away
[2010/05/04 19:26] Susie223 Chun: it's not difficlut to find someone with excellent decoration
[2010/05/04 19:26] Ding Atolia: i think he is really into his land though he is so rude...
[2010/05/04 19:26] Ruby Lysios: maybe you could go shopping and buy some furniture
[2010/05/04 19:26] Ding Atolia: sorry, J, i am not sure either
[2010/05/04 19:27] Ding Atolia: i will search more
[2010/05/04 19:27] Ding Atolia: is there a second-hand store in sl[2010/05/04 19:27] Ding Atolia: i mean second-hand stores haha there must be some
[2010/05/04 19:28] Ding Atolia: so we can save money
[2010/05/04 19:28] Susie223 Chun: yes ,there should be
[2010/05/04 19:28] Ruby Lysios: but people may nor know if the thing is used[2010/05/04 19:28] Ruby Lysios: that makes no difference
[2010/05/04 19:28] Jessie Passerine: ok~ your essay aroused my curiosity in buying and building houses in sl. maybe you can add it in your story[2010/05/04 19:29] Jessie Passerine: some further information
[2010/05/04 19:29] Ruby Lysios: i expect to know too
[2010/05/04 19:29] Ding Atolia: you mean in sl, we cannot check an object-whether it's new or old
[2010/05/04 19:29] Ding Atolia: ?
[2010/05/04 19:29] Ding Atolia: ok, I will do it
[2010/05/04 19:29] Ruby Lysios: whether it's new or old makes no difference[2010/05/04 19:29] Susie223 Chun: yes, they are all virtua
l[2010/05/04 19:29] Ruby Lysios: people might not aware of that
[2010/05/04 19:29] Ding Atolia: ooooooh
[2010/05/04 19:30] Ding Atolia: so the second-hand stores are useless[2010/05/04 19:30] Ding Atolia: haha
[2010/05/04 19:31] Ding Atolia: maybe we should call it throw-away stores-things other people don't want anymore but useful to other people
[2010/05/04 19:31] Ding Atolia: not throw-away exactly haha
[2010/05/04 19:32] Ruby Lysios: and maybe you could sell the things you do not want and make money
[2010/05/04 19:32] Ding Atolia: yeah that's what I mean
[2010/05/04 19:32] Ding Atolia: so all advice taken and i will make more efforts ha
[2010/05/04 19:32] Susie223 Chun: I see your point
[2010/05/04 19:32] Ding Atolia: any other suggestions?
[2010/05/04 19:33] Susie223 Chun: no
[2010/05/04 19:33] Ruby Lysios: no
[2010/05/04 19:33] Ding Atolia: or can we take a break now or at 11:00
My comment:
We are all curious about how to make money and buy lands to become the master. This week we were kicked out by the fram owner next to Mortu. He was so rude...but it seemed a special experience in second life.
Buying a house in secold life could mean a escape for us. In real life, we couldn't afford to buy one. In second life, we might decorate and design the house by our own and get a sense of achievement.
Sonny is encouraged to interview the owners and ask how they make money and what they feel about that. This could add to her writing and compare people's feeling of those house owners in second life and reality.

Become attractive person and desire in second life







Do you want to become a sexy and lustful person in your life? Of course, you don’t need to spend big money to have a plastic surgery and worry about the pain or the scars. Even if you are below eighteen, just prepare your money and shop in the sex store for adults-only goods. By changing your body shape, you could satisfy your sexual desires with a sexual-looking shape and attract people no matter you are heterosexual, gay or lesbian.

In real life, because of the gender dualism, we are born in male or female; we have no choice but become and ask to behave like a man or woman. Nowadays, people begin to rethink if the boundary of gender is necessary, unbreakable and de-sexualized has its meaning because more and more people find out that they have different sexual tendency. However, in second life, we never have to worry about the controversial issue. According to your feelings, you could decide whether you want to be a man or woman today. You have the freedom to have sexual behavior with another avatar when you get his or her permission. The avatar is animated and some people would get excited which might be equal to watching lustful pornography; the different situation is that you are the main character.


I visit “The Trister gay bar” and find it is very incredible and surprising. People feel free to have sex with each other in public space. Being polite, a person even invites me to a private space and asks me if I am willing to have sexual behavior with him. He also hopes that I could be naked to make him excited. Even though I refuse him, he is still very kind and respects me. I also notice that other people in the bar are half-naked and have good body shape. It seems that in second life, people don’t have to worry and think about the moral issues, responsibilities, burdens of love and relationships to think whether making love is proper or not. It happens naturally in second life.

However, in real life, we might not have the chance to visit a gay bar or pub. Some people might think it is dangerous. But in second life, you could have your own choice to visit there and express your sexual tendencies and desires freely and contently which might make us feel more confident in real life!